Let’s face it. New Year’s resolutions are traps. They get you all excited in the last week of December then crash and burn within days of the new year. You think “new year, new me” with your toilet paper roll list of things that you’re gonna change. Fast forward two days into your “new you” and you’re still the exact same person you were 72 hours ago! It was over before it even began. New Year’s resolutions are misleading, love. They set you up for failure the moment that you start thinking about them. You hoped, like we did with the pandemic, that the electric buzz of 2021 would change…